Queer individuals frequently find their way to the therapy room. The path to carving out one’s unique identity can be emotionally taxing at times, testing one’s courage and mental stamina. Finding oneself not in the “mainstream” but as a member of a protected minority can be a difficult challenge, but critical when one realizes that is their true self, their only way of living authentically.
Often close family members of queer individuals find their path to the therapy room, as well. Family members frequently need and seek guidance on how to best support their queer loved ones. For some the instinct to embrace and support is easy and clear, and for others the “coming out” process challenges one’s assumptions, one’s own traditional values.
It is too simple to reduce the appropriate response to “give love” but it is a wonderful starting point. Looking within and talking through one’s biases with a professional is another good starting point. The stakes are high, and therefore worth the work.
